Monday, March 9, 2009

How to live the real life I really want


It's time to get real..to the genuine article,authentic,true to life,straightforward,honest,very much down to earth...Really wish that i could CHANGED!Reading this book titled 'The Power of Focus For a Women" by Fran Hewitt & Les Hewitt.My close friend,Abbie Neoh gave me a copy of this book..so i can stay strong forever.Im realy grateful to have friends that are so supportive ,who motivate me the road of life.

What do all young children want & need?Mostly to feel loved,to feel safe.to get attention.and to feel significant.Children look to the significant people in their lives for guidance and for direction,and they often adopt their ways.Children learn to model whatever behavior is expected."Be good." "Be nice.","Be brave."The world of children is dominated by big people upon whom their very lives depends.

This teaches me to be a Good Example of Big People.Self-esteem is essential for a fulfilling life,it is the key to succes or failure.The most valuable things in life is "HAPPINESS, TIME WITH FAMILY MEMBERS & LOVE ONES ".

A women with healthy self-worth genuinely celeebrates success,and rightly so.She may feel challenged to accomplish something else,but underneath she feels good about her success.She might even say, "That's enough hard work for a while.I think i'll just relax and do something less demanding."She'd still be happy.

Courage & independant thinking is the essential ingredients for being authentic.The more integral we are,the more self respect we eran.Our self-esteem begins to flourish.Another crucial aspect of integrity is keeping our word.Its not easy.I believe this is one of the prime reasons world is in such a state.

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